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Will County Begins Issuing Same-Sex Civil Union Licenses Today

Starting Wednesday, gay and lesbian couples will have access to many of the same legal rights that married heterosexual couples have.

Sarah Stumpf had her dream wedding in October 2010.

“We got married in October. We got married in a relatively small, private religious ceremony,” she said. “Our first wedding was perfect.”

On Friday, she'll get enter another union, not to renew the vows she already made, but to get the legal rights and protections that married couples enjoy. Stumpf and her wife, Diana Braunshausen, of Romeoville, will enter into a civil union this week as Sarah and Diana Stausen (a combination of their last names).

The Will County Clerk’s Office will begin issuing civil union licenses Wednesday, providing the legal rights and benefits that married couples have. 

On Jan. 31, Gov. Pat Quinn signed into law the Illinois Religious Freedom Protection and Civil Union Act, which recognizes same-sex unions. With the new legislation, Illinois became the sixth state to allow civil unions. The law goes into effect today, and licenses are available for same-sex and heterosexual couples at least 18 years of age.

“Were going to the courthouse as soon as (a license) becomes available,” Stumpf said.

Equal protection

The couple said they already consider themselves married, as do all their family and friends. However, without the paperwork of a civil union, the state does not. Although a civil union is not marriage, it provides many of the same benefits, rights and obligations that come with tying the knot. That includes, among other things, hospital visitation rights, the ability to file joint tax returns and some workplace benefits.

A couple months after their October 2010 wedding, Stumpf had surgery for a brain tumor. Braunshausen was by her side through the whole ordeal.

“We were able to through power of attorney documents make most of that work,” Stumpf said. “Northwestern wrote 'married' on all of our forms.”

The problem is, without a civil union, powers of attorney can only go so far. If something had gone wrong, Braunshausen would have had no legal rights to sue. She said she's looking forward to having those protections.

“It’s nice because it won’t be up to the individual discretion of the doctor or the hospital,” she said.

'Step in the right direction'

The Rev. Sandy Costa, of Joliet, will be performing a civil union ceremony for the Stausens on Friday. She has been performing ceremonies for gay couples for some time, even though they have not been legally recognized unions. She, too, is excited about the change in Will County.

“It was absolutely necessary that Illinois catch up with the rest of the progressive states and start offering civil unions to gay couples, because it is the only logical and fair and reasonable thing to do,” Costa said. “They’re already forming unions they’re are already commitment ceremonies being performed all over the country.”

Such was the case for the Stausens.

“It was really important to us not to wait to have our (wedding),” Stumpf said. “If we wait for the rest of the world to catch up to gay marriage to where we are, we would be waiting forever.”

Costa is not alone in having performed ceremonies for gay couples who were in love but could not legally marry. And even though a civil union is still not recognized as a marriage—nor is it recognized outside of the county in which the license is granted—Romeoville Pastor Suzanne Anderson-Hurdle is thrilled about the legal change in Illinois.

Last year, she testified before the Illinois House of Representatives, urging legislators to pass a bill to make civil unions a reality.

“It’s a step in the right direction, but it’s not the end," Anderson-Hurdle said last week, calling the advent of civil unions in Illinois a good start toward granting marriage equality to gays and lesbians. “It’s America. We should all have the same rights, gay or straight.”

And the Stausens agree that this something to be excited about, but the fight for equality isn't over.

"This isn’t the end of this—we're really excited, but we're going to keep fighting for the word marriage and we're going to fight for federal benefits,” Stumpf said.

Getting a license

Licenses will be issued at the clerk’s office, 302 N. Chicago St. in Joliet, as well as its three branch offices in Bolingbrook, Crete and Plainfield. By law, couples must wait until the day after they obtain their license to have their civil union ceremony performed, so June 2 is the first day ceremonies may be held.

A license is valid for 60 days following the issue date. Ceremonies may be held at the Will County Courthouse, 14 W. Jefferson St. in Joliet.

Applicants must bring two proofs of age, with one being a copy of a birth certificate or a passport. An affidavit must also be signed stating that you’re not prohibited from entering into a civil union by the laws of where you live. Civil union licenses are only valid in the county in which they’re issued.

The fee for the license is $4 and must be paid in cash. Will County Deputy Clerk Judy Wiedmeyer said that amount was determined because it’s the charge for any non-marriage license, and that the state didn’t set a civil union license fee, though that could change.

In celebration of the first day of civil union ceremonies, the city of Chicago's Commission on Human Relations' Advisory Council on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Issues will host 30 civil union ceremonies at 10 a.m. in Millennium Park. Quinn is scheduled to attend, and Anderson-Hurdle said she will be one of several pastors there to bless couples' unions.

She will be one of several pastors offering a blessing and signing civil union certificates as couples are joined as part of “Unite with Pride: A Community Celebration.”

While the law allows couples to be joined in a civil ceremony, the June 3 event will allow couples to take part in a mass blessing, or, if they choose, an individual blessing.

“Some people really want God’s blessing on (their union),” she said. “That’s why they want us there … It’s not just about the rights—it’s about having their relationship recognized.”

For more information on civil unions, go to the Will County Clerk’s website or see the PDF attached to this article.

Editor's Note — New Lenox Patch Editor Michael Sewall also contributed to this article.

Nick Beam June 03, 2011 at 04:28 PM
Jerry- Separation of church and state. Many people do not read or care what the Bible contains. If you want to spread our religion stop jamming it don people's throats. Unless your motto is "Live like Jesus. Judge and yell at everyone!!!"
Eunoia June 03, 2011 at 06:20 PM
@ NICK @ Actually there is NO SUCH PHRASE in any of the Founding Fathers words as " separation of Church and state" what does exist is ...... The phrase "separation of church and state" (sometimes "wall of separation between church and state"), attributed to Thomas Jefferson and others, and since quoted by the Supreme Court of the United States, expresses an understanding of the intent and function of the Establishment Clause of the First Amendment to the Constitution of the United States. The First Amendment reads "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof ....", while Article VI specifies that "no religious Test shall ever be required as a Qualification to any Office or public Trust under the United States." The modern concept of a wholly secular government is sometimes credited to the writings of English philosopher John Locke, but the phrase "separation of church and state" in this context is generally traced to an 1 January 1802 letter by Thomas Jefferson, addressed to the Danbury, Connecticut, Baptist Association. And as we ALL KNow..... the Creators of The Constitution.....also used the Phrase IN GOD WE TRUST on our currency and in other ways Mentions a Belief in GOD
Haiku June 03, 2011 at 07:35 PM
He can't "step away" From religious perspective Lest god punish him
Haiku June 03, 2011 at 07:38 PM
And Nick's last comment Made reference to a concept Not verbatim quotes
Jerry June 03, 2011 at 08:33 PM
Eunoia, very well stated as to the true meaning of separation of church and state. As far as Haiku's statement about my being unable to "step away" from religious perspective, one could argue that to deny God's involvement in physiological and social issues is a religion in itself. The truth is I don't want to "step away" from what I believe to be God's Holy Word. I think I made that pretty clear in my last reply to Carl. So instead of just throwing around personal attacks why don't use some intellect and state what you believe and why you believe it. @ Carl, I am taking a cheap shot at you on this one but I can't ignore the humor. After you comment regarding my use of "copy and paste" application perhaps you should try "spell check"! What in the dickens is "phsysilogical"? And perhaps if the public schools would get back to to teaching reading, writing, and arithmetic our literacy rate in this country would improve as opposed to declining over the last 30 years and our graduation rate would improve as well.
Carl June 03, 2011 at 08:49 PM
LOL...it is spelled psychological, Jerry but obviously you have no room for typos on this thread. I truly find your cheap shots humorous. Attempting to mix religion with sociology and psychology is the issue even if you can't "step away"...they are their own concepts within itself. So Haiku still makes a factual point even if you chose to perceive it as stepping away from your god which is not the idea behind that statement.
Carl June 03, 2011 at 08:53 PM
I'll also leave it at that. I don't have time to continue conversations with people who will make insults and not hold an adult conversation even if we disagree. I respect your opinion, Jerry. You have a right to it. I am merely seeing it from a different perspective which you clearly misunderstand and it's falling on "deaf ears."
Jerry June 03, 2011 at 08:57 PM
Carl, I will acknowledge your reply as "the last word" on this strand. I have enjoyed the dialog and respect your defense of your convictions. Look forward to more in the future!
Haiku June 03, 2011 at 09:20 PM
Personal attacks?!?! Think, instead of reacting Then you'll see my point
Haiku June 03, 2011 at 09:21 PM
Why do some people Seem to relish the notion They've been offended?
Haiku June 03, 2011 at 09:28 PM
Most schmucks can ramble Can you "use some intellect" And respond in kind?
Eunoia June 04, 2011 at 03:26 AM
hot dog personally I relish the thought that some people will catch_up
Nick Beam June 04, 2011 at 03:13 PM
Eunoia- Actually according to treasury.gov "in God we trust" wasn't added until 1864 on our coins and not on our paper currency until 1957. Obviously way after the creation of the Constitution... Plain and simple the founding fathers established a country with freedom of and from religion... Stop jamming your religion the throat of others...
Haiku June 04, 2011 at 04:48 PM
You must have trouble Counting up to seventeen While your shoes are on ;)
Eunoia June 04, 2011 at 07:37 PM
ITS JUST A PUNY ATTEMPT @ EXISTENTIAL HAIKU ^_^
Haiku June 04, 2011 at 08:36 PM
I hope you're happy I'm trying to eat better Now I want hot dogs
Eunoia June 04, 2011 at 08:46 PM
spam A lot of people eat not just hot dogs - try this one on for size Exciting foodstuff It draws the lightning to it A flash in the SPAM
Dulcinea Hawksworth June 04, 2011 at 10:29 PM
Jesus loves me this I Know. For the bible tells Me, so I Believe.
Dulcinea Hawksworth June 04, 2011 at 11:03 PM
... In related News: Jesus Called, He said "I Love You All!" ::The following music may have been heard in the background:: http://youtu.be/-gh778wdw5E
Haiku June 04, 2011 at 11:13 PM
A little clumsy At least you gave it a shot Thank you for playing!
Haiku June 04, 2011 at 11:19 PM
And I checked your link Can you give us some background On PeaceQueer.com?
Jim Lausier June 05, 2011 at 06:27 AM
Hmmm... Perhaps a clip from The West Wing is what's needed here. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHaVUjjH3EI
Carl June 05, 2011 at 04:16 PM
Great clip, Jim! Thanks for sharing :-)
Shannon Antinori (Editor) June 05, 2011 at 09:54 PM
I never watched "The West Wing." Looks like I missed out! Thanks for the great clip, Jim.
Jerry June 06, 2011 at 02:45 AM
Wonder why he didn't quote Romans 1:18-28. Must not have memorized those verses. But then again what can one expect from NBC?
deangelo June 16, 2011 at 12:07 AM
GOD should not be involved in this ABOMINATION
Alicia Guzman-Riley July 11, 2011 at 06:18 PM
Theology cannot be made into law, as separation of church and state applies both ways. We also the freedom to choose what religion we practice, so you're religious views don't apply to anyone else other than you. As for your Bible verse, it also says a few passages before that that eating shrimp is an abomination. Not to mention, man shouldn't sit/lay anywhere a woman has menstruated... can you say selective reading. The Bible was written in a different time within a different context. People should have the basic right to pick their sex partners and be free to enter any institution they want.
Patrick Worrall July 11, 2011 at 09:47 PM
As for the founders, yes many believed in god. And several, including Jefferson were Deists.
Pastor Suzanne Anderson-Hurdle July 12, 2011 at 07:47 PM
Before today, Ive stayed out of posting but I have been reading this thread. Now, I want to say a few things. First, unlike Jerry (the one who posted Scripture), I believe the Bible is the inspired (not inerrant) Word of God, written by human hands. Second, I wonder what you think, Jerry, about the many men in the OT who cheated on their wives. Is this your Biblical model of marriage? Third, Jerry, do you keep ALL the laws of God. Fourth, it seems to me, through my studies of Scripture, that the Bible is a story of God's love for His people. The Old Testament is God showing His love, despite the Israelites turning away from Him. God finally realizes that the only way to get them back is for Him to become like us, Emmanuel, God with us; to bear our burdens and our sorrow; to be bruised and beaten for our sins; to carry our cross of shame so we don't have to. The essence of the NT continues the story of God's love for His people, however, the emphasis is less on the keeping of the Law to save us and instead, the realization that only by faith, through God's grace, can we be saved. For those of you who aren't believers please know that many of us who are believers DO NOT look down on you or bear ill will toward you or anything else. If we are true believers, we will do what Jesus commanded; "Love the Lord...and love your neighbor as yourself." Perhaps therein lies the problem for many believers...do they really love themselves?
my conscience July 13, 2011 at 12:40 AM
Pastor SA=H nice explanation, except for BOM omission.

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