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State Rep Candidate Natalie Manley Charged with Domestic Battery

In a statement, Manley asks for privacy: "Many parents have had to learn how to love their kids while not enabling inappropriate behavior," candidate says.

 

Updated at 4:38 a.m. May 9.

A local Democratic contender for a new Illinois House of Representatives seat is facing a domestic battery charge.

Natalie Manley, 50, a Joliet accountant and candidate in the 98th District race, was arrested Tuesday by Joliet police at her home in the 3100 block of Ingalls Avenue.

Police said the arrest stemmed from a dispute Manley had with her 21-year-old daughter. The younger woman reportedly told police she had lost her cell phone and was unable to let her mother know she would be home late.

When the 21-year-old did return to the apartment she shares with Manley at around 2 a.m. Tuesday, police said she was attacked by her mother, who “punched, kicked, knocked her to the ground, struck her in the face [and] hit her with a set of keys.”

The daughter fled the apartment and went to a Joliet police station, where officers observed visible injuries, including bruises, police said.

Police arrested Manley at her Ingalls Avenue apartment around 6:15 a.m. A man identified as Manley’s fiancé was also at the apartment, police said, but told officers he was asleep during the incident and witnessed nothing.

In a press release issued early Wednesday, Manley's campaign said the arrest was sparked by a dispute between Manley and her daughter, who arrived to the apartment "after curfew and intoxicated," adding an argument over the 21-year-old's behavior ensued.

“I am embarrassed for my family and friends and ask that you all respect our need for privacy," Manley said in the statement. "No family is perfect, and many parents have had to learn how to love their kids while not enabling inappropriate behavior. I continue to thank you for your thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.”

Manley, who ran uncontested in the March 20 primary, is set to face Republican challenger Bob Kalnicky in the November election. Under new legislative maps approved last year, the 98th House District includes portions of Bolingbrook, Romeoville, Plainfield and Crest Hill.

Manley is also known as one-third of the WJOL Radio trio Lynne, Mary & Natalie.

Related Topics: 98th District, Domestic Battery, Joliet Police, Natalie Manley, and elections 2012

Herb Schmidt

9:10 pm on Tuesday, May 8, 2012

SOUNDS LIKE THE DAUGHTER SET HER UP TO RUIN HER CHANCES IN THE ELECTION

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CONCERNED FRIEND

10:59 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

It sounds to me like the MOTHER ruined her own chances in the election. I also think people who WERE NOT there shouldn't be posting about what they heard. Apparantly everyone is trying to cover this up because of it being a political issue now. I think what people should be more concerned about is that the daughter was hurt by her mother in a way that should never have happened. The mother shouldn't be saying she was drunk because if she was drunk, the police would have questioned her when she was reporting the incident at the police station. The MOTHER kicked her daughter out of their house and took her keys from her thats how she ended up with the keys and a FRIEND of the DAUGHTER came and picked her up and took her to the police station. The DAUGHTER is being quiet because family is trying to make this a CLOSED CASE in favor of the MOTHER, while CONCERNED FRIENDS are trying to get this out because NO ONE has the right to beat their child, especially in the excess that MANLEY did!!

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Close Friend

3:27 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

I completely agree with you, Concerned Friend!

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Gaby

11:45 am on Friday, May 18, 2012

I gree, Natalie is a wonderful person and I am very sad that this is happening to her. We are very quick to judge people and I think we need to think before we speak. We love you Natalie.

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Gaby

11:48 am on Friday, May 18, 2012

I agree, I have known Natalie for a long time and she is the sweeties person Ive meet. Dont judge her right away Natalie has struggled with her daughter for a wile and I know she isnt a sweet innocent butterfly either. We love you Natalie!!!

A Concerned Citizen

9:48 pm on Tuesday, May 8, 2012

We should be thanking the daughter. The daughter probably let us see her true colors that have been camouflaged by a holier than thou attitude. Our encounters through the condo association have not been agreeable.

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Knowing Cousin

5:30 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Natalie was not holding the keys, did not strike nor kick and was not the aggressor. Charges will be dropped when the facts are confirmed by a much more sober daughter. Nat is not our favorite cousin, but we have spoken with both of them and "the daughter" shared that any injuries were caused by her own actions, falling more than once that evening (well, morning) and the keys she held in her hand. So, there's the inside scoop from her family.

Bob Jonas

9:49 pm on Tuesday, May 8, 2012

If she can't handle the pressure of parent hood how can she handle the pressure of running our state. Her daughter is 21. Why is she still trying to control her daugher?

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Noble citizen

10:13 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

You sound very ignorant. The "pressures of parent hood" don't really apply to a 21 year old "adult", and for one if you live under my roof, your going to live under my rules, or you can find your own place to live. Simply a matter of respect. Drunk people tend to lose that amount of respect for others; I don't care what your cultural location is.

jaskie1505

9:58 pm on Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Wow. That's all I have to say is WOW. Illinois just keeps on putting the best candidates on the ballot.

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Freddie Kissell

11:05 pm on Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Holy cow, one of WJOL's finest in the slammer!

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Divette

11:24 pm on Tuesday, May 8, 2012

I agree with ^ A Concern Citizen. This is truly unbelievable!!! What is going on? How did this woman even get a chance as a future candidate. I bet this is not the 1st time she's done this & maybe way worst. There goes her chances. Imagine what she will do to us or for us. So disappointed!!!

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Bill Turner

11:29 pm on Tuesday, May 8, 2012

I think someone who lives in her mom's home should respect the rules of that house.
I don't think any of us know what happened but clearly the situation was fueled by a daughter who was out of control.

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Tim

12:31 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

The daughter is out of control?

The daughter has nothing to do with this. This woman physically assaulted an unarmed person causing visible injuries, and from the picture took none herself. The fact that it was a family member only makes it worse.

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Annie H.

4:04 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Bill, I agree on the "respect the rules of that house" thing but no one, NO ONE, should ever lay their hands upon their child. Plain and simple.

Bill Turner

11:49 pm on Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Considering that Kilnicky wants to cut $690 million from public education...I'll still take Manley.

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Chris

9:27 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Bill, first, I hope this family gets the assistance it seems like it needs. While not on the level of tragic, it appears to me there are some personal issues that take precedent over something like a political platform. Second, if you could please post a link to where these cuts are mentioned, I would appreciate it.

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Gene Rapp Sr.

11:59 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

She should follow in the footsteps of the Socialist immitating as a President and leader, Obama . . . Bush did it!

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Bill Turner

3:49 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Chris, look at his positions. Read between the lines. If you cut something that provides funding to education, then it cuts education. What Kalnicky has proposed is cutting a department that provides $690 million for education. That means he is ok with cutting $690 million from education. Its that simple. He is hoping no one sees this...but we do.

Sam Nantz

12:15 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

There is no history of domestic abuse in this home, and we are dealing with a matter of "he said, she said" at the moment.

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Annie H.

4:05 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Sam, the law in Illinois, I believe, is that if the officers can verify abuse, the abuser will be arrested. So, they must have had cause, as the article states. And, again, NO ONE should be laying a hand on their children - especially on a 21 year-old.

Bill

7:40 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Sometimes kids deserve a swift kick in the ass! She still has my vote. I have kids too.

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justadude

8:28 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

unless you have raised a troubled teen, sit down and close your mouth. i'm sure this daughter is not 100% innocent, arriving home at 2am drunk. and you don't know if she shoved her mom, threw stuff around or whatever happened. what she should have done is had her daughter move out before it came to this. maybe one day this daughter will realize she was disrespecting her mom. and for all we know, this daughter could have serious drinking issues. maybe she drove drunk/acted drunk/behaved drunk/disrespected her mom's rules/car/property/home? maybe this girl needed a little wake up call? a least her mom cares. yeah her reaction wasn't ideal. i bet some of you probably could have probably benefited from a 2AM whoop-ass also. lol at least she knows her mom cares and where she stands. better than the alternative.

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CONCERNED FRIEND

10:16 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Only the mother is saying she was drunk. The police would have known if she were drunk or intoxicated. They are trained to see those types of things, especially dealing with domestic violence because it so often does start with intoxication. In this incident, there is nothing in the report saying that the police found her to be under the influence at all. It also has on the police report that an eye witness is the fiance when the fiance is telling the papers and such that he was sleeping and saw nothing... How convenient... this isnt the first time it has happened and clearly if the daughter didn't stand up for herself it would have kept happening. I applaud her for going to the police , that was a LEVEL headed thing to do. I think her mothers political endeavors shouldn't be involved with this though. The fact of the matter, she struck someone, even worse, her own daughter with no provocation other than breaking curfew. And here is the worst part of the aftermath, she won't even apologize to her daughter. She has no remorse, which means she'll do it again if she gets the chance. She needs anger management and family counseling. I feel for the daughter immensely and wish people could see the error of their ways, man up and apologize. Its just "im sorry, i was wrong" ... it goes a long way

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Bill Turner

11:12 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Umm...you are the only one bringing politics into this. And again welcome to the Real World. For someone who claims to work "45 hours a week" you sure have a lot of time to spend on here. Continuing to blather on and on, on messages boards only shows you hate Natalie and are biased toward her spoiled daughter; that you would do and say anything to hurt one and help the other. I dont believe anything you say. At this point, there is nothing we have that is a fact, only two sides of a story.

PKR

8:52 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

First off at 21 this girl is an adult. It sounds like she has divorced parents, and may be in college. Young adults who are often coming home from college or another parents house often have difficulty adjusting to new rules. Coming home at 2am isn't that unusual for a young adult. She is old enough to drink. Either way verbally abusing and beating your 21 year old will only make things worse as Manley learned. Its also not productive to confront a tried and intoxicated person until they sober up. The only way to punish a 21 year old is by taking away your financial support, the things you bought for them, and eventually kick them out of the house; they are adults after all. However, one must realize that at 21 young adults expect much more freedom and that is part of growing up. This woman is not going to get my vote.

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Ken

10:07 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

A 21 year old has a curfew?

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A Concerned Citizen

10:58 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

I totally agree about the curfew. Let's be realistic. Have we forgotten our youthful indiscretions at that age? Tell her to get to bed and sleep it off and save the discussion for later when both parties can think clearly. Plus if she was drunk, I sure hope she walked to the police station and did not drive a car. Mom should have stopped that. This could have ended up differently if there was an accident.

Vicki Murphy

11:05 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

When you live in your parents home you play by their rules. My adult children did not move away from home permanently until the were 26 and 28. There were rules to follow. If they did not want to follow them, they had the freedom to move out at any time.

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Shannon Antinori

11:35 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

I've deleted a comment that contained implied swearing. Please keep it clean, folks.

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Tim

12:07 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

So, who gets to delete entire articles with 'implied swearing'?

http://plainfield.patch.com/blog_posts/renting-a-movie-at-redbox-follow-these-seven-rules-or-heaven-help-you

Patch can't even follow its own rules. How Patch can follow the same failed model that caused AOL to fail before this, is both astonishing and amusing. They didn't learn from their previous failure, and are charging headlong with making the same mistakes again, but expecting different results for some reason.

Johnie B Good

12:55 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Who cares about the election....this mom and daughter need to focus on healing. Mom may have over reacted (what parent hasn't) and daughter over reacted as well by going to the police. Looks like the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Where are you Doctor Drew????

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John Moreli

6:23 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

The case will get dismissed! Its her word against the daughters word! No witnesses! Whose to say it wasnt a mutal confrontation!

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John Moreli

6:59 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Why was Marie M comment deleted?

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John Moreli

7:40 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Implied swearing? Quick question! Does the Patch newspaper believe in or endorse ones choice for abortion or same sex marraige?

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Kevin S

8:00 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

What the h3ll is implied swearing?

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Allison Christman

6:09 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Love the mugshot, great campaign photo.

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Close Friend

3:23 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

I can't believe that a mother would even ever think to do this to their child..Especially one of which that is a legal adult. Drunk or not, This mother beat her defenseless child over being a couple hours late from a party that SOMEONE ELSE drove her to and from! She was responsible enough to get a designated driver to drive her home and to have her mom blow up over something so stupid is ridiculous and should NEVER go unpunished! No matter what, you should never lay your hands on your own family! As for the person who said they did not witness anything because he was sleeping...??? Are you kidding me?! I bet you that there were screaming involved and theres no way he couldnt have woken up. Theres deffinately more to that story! He had to have saw something and I bet did nothing.There was physical evidence completely agreeing with the daughter's discription of the incident so theres no way Manley can get out of this. By her arrest photo you already know there is nothing wrong with Ms. Manley. What she did was wrong and she needs to be held for her consequences as the respectful adult she says she is. The victims family is also trying to push everything under the rug and trying to persude the victim to drop everything to save the poor defenseless Ms. Manley. Forget that! I'd say do what you feel is right and show her that what she did will not go unpunished just because shes trying for government! I wouldnt want someone like this in my government one bit! You shouldn't either!

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Bill Turner

3:43 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Becca,

You said the daughter didnt drive herself home. Where is that in the story? It seems you are making that up to fit your THEORY of what happened. We dont need people lying about things. We need the truth. The truth is this is a private matter about a spoiled girl who doesnt want to follow the rules of the home she is living in for free! She says she lost her phone and couldnt call. What a load of poo. There isnt a person in the country that doesnt have access to a cell phone. Assuming she did loose it, she could have borrowed a friends for a moment and called. She didnt. Well, now she gets to see what it's like in the REAL WORLD. No more free-loading. She gets to find a place to live, pay rent, GET A JOB, pay her own bills.....all because she didnt want to come home on time and use a phone.

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Bill Turner

3:46 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

When I was a kid, if I did this my butt would still be stinging from the whooping I would have gotten from my Dad. Kids these days think the world revolves around them. They can just come and go as they please. Yes, she was 21. But if you arent old enough to live on your own and pay your own bills, then you arent old enough to have all the rights that go with that. If you dont want to follow them, then MOVE OUT. Quit blaming the rest of the world because you messed up.

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Close Friend

4:06 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Bill....Did your dad beat you so bad that there were very real and very visible indications that he did? Yes she may have been living there for free and yes she should have been more responsible and listened to her mothers rules...But are you soooooo sure that for breaking a VERY LITTLE rule....that you are saying that she had what was coming to her??? That she deserved to be beaten by her own mother...Is that seriously what you are implying??? That it is right for what her mother did to her?! I mean right now I believe the only person living in an alternate universe....Is YOU. How do you know she doesn't pay her own bills? Or have a job? Atleast my theories and what I say actually are backed up by evidence. You are just pulling the "What ifs?!" from out of thin air. I know for a complete fact that laying your hand inappropriately on ANYONE is considered battery for whatever reason there is. There is evidence of the bruises and the whelts that were left from her mother all over. So don't you think that what you are saying right this minute...That what you JUST SAID implys that you think its ok for someone to beat their own child. That it is fair and deserving for that child to be hit for something so stupid and ridiculous and to forver have that image of their mother or father beating them like that. Are you kidding me Bill?? So I think what I said is enough and I think maybe you should read what you type before you press the big beautiful button called Enter.

Bill Turner

4:10 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

"There is evidence of the bruises and the whelts that were left from her mother all over." You know this....how? Where you there?

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Bill Turner

4:11 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

You are also ASSUMING she is guilty. Right now we only have the word of a very mad daughter....with all the reason in the world to lie.

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Bill Turner

4:15 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

The daughter's own family members on here said that the daugther said to them she got the marks that are there from falling at the party. So clearly there are two sides to this. You are only accepting one side. Which is odd....You seem very upset about this...I makes me wonder if you are a friend of the daughter, just unloading on here.

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Close Friend

4:19 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

I can't disclose that information, but I do know what I'm talking about atleast. Besides...not all reporters get EVERY detail. I can assume anything I'd like since this is America and I have the freedom of speech. Besides all that...You didn't answer the question at all and by turning the whole arguement in a different way I can now assume I already know your answer to it. What Ms Manley did to her child is WRONG and I just hope the daughter will be ok and continue on with what she believes and I hope for all the best for her. As for you Bill....I hope you too have a nice day.

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Bill Turner

4:24 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Becca, you said it all. For the record, I think it is perfectly fine to correct your child and if it means a smack upside the head, then so be it. If her injuries were SO severe, as you are making them out to be (DRAMA!!) she would have gone to the hospital. Did she???? NOOOOO!

Becca, your a child, and your friend, the daughter, is a child. YOU decided to stay out past the rules. YOU decided to not call. YOU decided to drink yourself into a stooper. One day when you have kids, you will understand. You may be 21, but you are still, clearly, a child. So have fun helping your friend pay her own bills from now on. Good luck on that.

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Close Friend

4:37 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Woah hold on a second....First of all...I feel bad for your children. Secondly, I would NEVER beat my child like that EVER! A smack upside the head...Oh dear are you kidding me?! Thats what you think it was?? Wow you seriously have everything twisted up to fit your perfect world don't you?? Thirdly...I am not a child and I know what right and wrong is. You're a person that thinks whatever happens to someone is nothing. What if this same incident happened to you or someone you love?? What do you think you would do??? Would you just laugh it off as you are now by saying that the child deserves a good "whoop ass" as you say it?? Correct the child by saying that you are the head honcho and says that "Since you are my child I have a right to correct you by beating you" Wow thats just....That is...Just disturbing to hear and I just hope this doesn't happen to your kids...

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Bill Turner

4:41 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Becca, Welcome to the real world. Yup, my kid disrespects me or my wife in my house that I work 70 hours a week to keep. If they break my rules, talk back to me, stay out all hours of the night, refuse to call, and then lie about not being able to. If they surround themselves with friends like you who edge them on to break our rules....ya, theyre getting a thumpin and then they stuff would be on the lawn. So, again, I hope you have a spot on your couch for her to stay on. But before she moves in...just make sure you clear with your parents.

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Bill Turner

4:48 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Oh, and my kids are all grown now. But they all went to college. Thye have good jobs. Work hard. Own their own homes. And do it all on their own. My wife and I helped them as much as we could, but they have done so much on their own. And they have a life to show for it. Her daugher has a couple of bags of clothes on the lawn, no house, no degree....I am thinking she should have a come-to-jesus moment with herself to decide if the path she is on is a very productive one.

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Close Friend

4:50 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

So how would you know what went on?? How do you know what happened?? Were you there?? Did they tell you that all they did was bump her on the head?? I work over 45 hour every week, I pay my own bills, and I will support my friends when they are in need. I don't condone beating a child when they did something just so minor. Dont even begin to say things you dont know for certain unless you know what goes on. You have no idea, yet you are automatically assuming that the victim got what was coming to her. Just like you sat there and said that all im doing is assuming the culprit is guilty. So have fun being a hypocrite and have fun commenting on things you have no knowledge about.

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Bill Turner

4:58 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Well, "Close friend" AKA "Becca" your clearly biased in the case. Standing up for your friend also means telling them when they are wrong. Did she or didnt she break her mom's rules? Did she or didnt she stay out after the agreed upon time? Did she or didnt she drink? Did she or didnt she not call? Did she or didnt she lie when she said she couldnt? Did she or didnt she disrespect her mom in HER house?

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Carl Black

6:05 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Becca, have you seen the size of Bridget? She could have easily defended herself.

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John Moreli

7:39 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Stop with the child crap already, shes 21! Like I said the case will be dismissed! No witnesses and it's her word against her word!

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John Moreli

7:40 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Close friend you weren't there either, so you know squat too!

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Vashawn

2:05 pm on Friday, May 11, 2012

This is truly the saddest story I have heard in a very long time. To the "concerned friend" you cant be serious. I care for both Bridget and her mother but Bridget is 21 she should be out on her own. Truth be told even Bridget best friends will tell you she is a spoiled, selfish brat. Her mom has supported her when she flunked out of college, got fired from several jobs because she is lazy. Gave her a place to live because no one would rent to her. Natalie's friends have told her to kick her but out let her sink or swim yet her mom has been a cheerleader. I think it is laughable that Natalie would even physically be able to hurt her daughter. I mean come on get real. Bridget is built like a linebacker about a foot taller and 75 pounds heavier than Natalie. Seriously her mother hurt her. Bridget could take down her mother with one hand behind her back. The media is making Bridget out to be a defenseless child. Bridget should be ashamed of herself. Bridget, now who is going to financially take care of you? Remember, Bridget, karma will meet you 3 fold what you did to your mom. I am praying for you both.

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A Concerned Citizen

11:25 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Maybe that explains the puke on the wall in the rear hallway of the building they live in that has been there for a few days that needs to be cleaned up!

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Jeff Star

6:42 pm on Wednesday, May 16, 2012

I happen to have been friends with Natalie and her family. They have a very close family and will work this out. I am not siding with either but I will say that it is out of character for each. I think Natalie has alot on her plate (maybe more then she can handle) but thats how she has always been. Pressure does alot to people. I think she should just rember when she was 21 and the daughter(will not name) should just think. Sit down work it out move on. Natalie is a smart woman (yes over reactive as I remember) or to be politicaly correct (Quick Witted). Work it out, Move on, get back to work.

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DoTheMath.Skeptic

2:55 pm on Thursday, August 30, 2012

Just received Natalie Manley's mailing today (Aug. 30). Also visited her website.

It is noteworthy that she is not acknowledging her party affiliation on the website or the mailing (except the return address is "the Democratic Party of Illinois" in small print). Perhaps being "transparent" [read "opaque"] is characteristic of being an Illinois Democrat.

We hope mother and daughter have resolved the problem between them.

BUT, regardless of who's right about their confrontation, the domestic battery charge raises the question if she is really qualified to serve as our representative. If, as one comment suggests, Natalie is stressed, how will she ever handle the stress in Springfield?

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